3. The Sophisticate: Beretta
SF is chock-full of savvy, whip-smart women. You may have finally met your equal in the self-assured young lass at the bar sipping a whiskey cocktail. While she checks her iPhone for the latest tweet from Alain de Botton, ask your humble barkeep for the Drowned and The Saved (contratto rouge, becherovka, rye, and sage salt). Drowned and saved, indeed.
1199 Valencia St., The Mission (415-695-1199).