1) Be as intentional about your relationship as you are about your gamerscore.
"You shouldn't be seeing more virtual bloodshed in a week than your girl naked. So if you're gaming all night Tuesday, make plans to spend Wednesday evening with your significant other. And take advice from my former Inside XBox boss Tina Summerford-Wood: road trip to a cool gaming event like the Halo 4: Global Championship or PAX Prime to give her a taste of the culture."
Good men mean well. We just don't always end up doing well. - Isaac Clarke, Dead Space 3